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How can you make birdnesting work for you?

On Behalf of | Jun 23, 2021 | Child Custody, Divorce |

When it comes to a divorce that includes children, many parents look for different ways to ease their children’s transition. According to CNBC, one way that parents do this is through birdnesting. 

Birdnesting involves keeping your children at home and rotating parents instead. To make nesting work, you need to have a good relationship with your former spouse. Conflicts may arise and you have to know how to deal with them without including the children. Following the main points of birdnesting can make the process easier. 

Stay in the family home

When you birdnest, the main purpose is for your children to remain in the family home. Your children have to process the effects of your divorce too. Depending on your children’s ages, they may have various fears and stresses regarding the split. 

You and your spouse split your time between a second home and your family home. Many parents choose to rent an apartment where each stays respectively when not with the children. Try to keep your children on their old routine. School, extra-curricular activities and bedtimes should remain stable. 

Only nest for a short time

Think of nesting as an adjustment period for your children. They have time to acclimate to the divorce. Most bird-nesters only nest for about six months. If you carry on for too long, your children may begin to think that you and your spouse can work out your issues and remarry. The false hope may become more damaging. 

Nesting can help your children come to terms with the divorce in a safe and familiar environment.